In the rush of daily life, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities that seem crucial at the moment. For many years, I was no exception. From my college days through to my early career, I was perpetually busy, chasing what seemed like the most important things at the time: earning a postgraduate degree, securing a good job, traveling to new places, and making money. These…
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Our Journey is Solitary
At the tender age of six, I found myself stepping into a new world. My parents, with teary eyes and heavy hearts, left me at the gates of Westcott, my new home away from home. Boarding school became my reality, a place where I would spend the formative years of my life. The journey that began there was solitary, but it shaped me in ways I could never have imagined.…
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The Life of Mediocrity: A Personal Journey
What does it mean to be mediocre? For many, the term conjures images of unremarkable achievements and a life lived in the shadows of extraordinary individuals. But I’ve come to realize that mediocrity isn’t as dreadful as it seems. In fact, it’s an essential part of the human experience, and there’s a unique beauty in embracing it. Ever since my days at Westcott, my hostel, I’ve been an average student.…
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The Art of Disappearing
Every human being is a busy being, so are you, so am I. But, in the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, the idea of disappearing holds a certain allure. For me, if I have to talk about it personally, the concept of taking a break isn’t just about vanishing into thin air but about finding a sanctuary for my mental and emotional well-being. It’s about seeking solace in…
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10 Signs Someone Is Using You and Doesn’t Care About You
Relationships, whether they are friendships, romantic involvements, or even familial bonds, are built on mutual respect, care, and affection. However, sometimes, people enter our lives with less than noble intentions. Recognizing when someone is using you and doesn’t genuinely care about you is crucial for maintaining your mental and emotional well-being. Here are ten signs that someone might be using you. 1. They Only Reach Out When They Need Something…
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One Day, It Will Be Too Late
In life, there’s a statement that often haunts me: “One day, it will be too late.” It’s a powerful reminder of the transient nature of my existence and the fleeting opportunities that come my way. But this statement isn’t just limited to me. This is applicable to all of us. This notion isn’t just about the big, dramatic moments; it’s about the everyday chances that we often take for granted.…